Social dynamics is a term stemmed from the idea of the change in the behavior of an individual due the influence of those around him or her in a group or at an individual level. Communication today is one of the most important skill, not everyone is a good communicator and faces the side effects of not being able to communicate well. Surviving in the world today you must know the proper to act when in a public setting. If you are unable to communicate properly. You may be cast as an out-cast. The social dynamics help you gauge what kind of behavior is acceptable in what setting. You cannot behave in the same manner wherever you go. For instance if you go to a formal meeting you need to follow the decorum of the meeting and behave keeping in mind all the etiquette’s and mannerisms. However, if you go to your best friend’s place for a slumber you must not behave like the way you behaved in the office meeting. If you do so, your best friend might drag you to the hospital to get you checked if you are in your senses.

We learn to communicate from the moment we are born. We cry when we want attention, food and to get changed. Here are a few things that will help you communicate in a more effective way.

1.      Look at Attitude and Feeling

The attitude, behavior & body language in an individual’s conversation puts a lot of impact on the issue of the talk. The qualities of honesty, peace, optimism, culture, etc. elevate your temperament and improve your communication skills.

2.      Understand the Unspoken Words

While communicating there are some unspoken words like in the form of gestures, facial expressions, feelings, emotions etc. that put across the intentions of the individual easily. To understand these unspoken words helps to understand what the other person wants to say. In fact, these unspoken words are an integral part of social dynamics as it gives you a glimpse into the personality and thoughts of those who are communicating with you.

3.      Be aware of the changing environment

The world around you is changing constantly, and so are the people as every one of us are finding ways and means to adapt ourselves to these changes. With time, we recognize that we have changed and adapted to the changes in our environment.Noticing these changes can make it easier for you to come up with the right words while talking to your colleagues and using the right gestures to make them feel comfortable with you.

4. Learn to listen

Listening is the best way to communicate. A good listener is a good communicator. When you pay close attention and listen to what a person has to say you are able to learn a lot of thing you wouldn’t have had if you didn’t listen attentively. In an argument most people do not listen and keep saying what they want that gives the fire more fuel. If you first listen to what the other person has to say, you might as well understand the point. If not then you might be able to respond in a better way and give your input properly. If we develop the habit of listening to others our communication skills will drastically improve.

5. Pay Attention To The Body Language

Body language is considered to be the 70% of every conversation. Most people are unaware of the phenomenon that we converse more with our bodies rather than our mouths. We use the gift of able bodies to assist what our mouth is saying. Body language includes the stature, hand gestures, facial expressions and even the pitch and tone of your voice. Each of them impact what you are saying. The same sentence can sound different if you say it in different tones. Body language is what puts the life in our sentences. We can use our body language to imply things that our mouth is not uttering.

Listening is the utmost part for developing the communication skills.Effective communication skills give you the ability to relate with others on an interpersonal level. But we tend to run into trouble when our lines of communication get crossed. Misunderstandings arise as a result of miscommunications. communication takes place any time there is a sender, a message, and a receiver. The form of message can take many forms, which is likely why we sometimes have difficulty interpreting what others are trying to communicate.

Effective communication skills increase ability to be heard and understood. They also increase the confidence and self esteem by empowering us to speak out. 

Work on it and save your drowning relationships, it’s just that simple, listen attentively and communicate where need be, it will work I promise🤗❤

Stay safe.

N.O👣☯

As I take a seat beside my dad, the world seems so calm, everyone seems so concerned, relatives you never known, friends you never met, the love you never felt, buh I wake up to realization that it was all in my head. I liked it when it was real. When I really used to feel, when I could wake up in the morning with thought’s of getting you mad, asking if you fine and you would give honest replies, right now, it’s getting old, the same questions, same answers, nothing new, nothing to share, nothing to genuinely talk about, cold , warm, look-warm, hot, all this different reactions, I don’t know which one to actually pick as the realest. Sure reassurance hit’s when it’s least expected I had that a couple of times, a thousand I guess… But I want what works with me, for me and the people I’m gon’ come across. I don’t want to judge everyone and be afraid simply because we missed a step. I ain’t a saint, got my own fair share of flaws, I work on them on me, on a daily, not for anyone, but for me and my peace. I’m laying this down easy, I can’t fight myself. I can’t break my own heart cause maybe my idea of this is different from yours, retracing my footsteps back, hope I’ll find who I used to be.

N.O👣☯

Who doesn’t love Travie Mccoy?

That’s besides the point😅

It’s a question that often plagues people after a painful break-up: What went wrong? As they work to figure out the answer, people typically create new relationship stories, analyzing the events leading up to the breakup and using them to build a cohesive narrative. In some cases, this type of storytelling can be positive, helping people to make sense of—and come to terms with—painful things that happen to them. Other times, though, the storytelling process can be a negative one, compounding pain rather than easing it.

Many stories are similar to the ones I’d heard from friends after their own breakups. The refrains were familiar:  “Why wasn’t I good enough?” or “Is there something wrong with me?” When people see ex-partners in new relationships, they often ask themselves: “What does she or he have that I don’t?”

While a new relationship will definitely help get over the past quicker, it is not a healthy way of dealing with rejection.

This isn’t just bad for you; you will be potentially hurting the other person’s feelings.

Give yourself time. Don’t start a new relationship when you still have unfinished emotional business.

N.O👣☯